Is sexy?
By Chris Thomlinson.
After ‘Porn’ (see ‘the truth about the lies about porn’), ‘Sexy’ is, by far, the next misused word in the English language!
When adding the letter ‘y’ to: water, art, cheek, mess, dirt, sleep and horn, there is no loss as to the meaning of the original word. When you add a ‘y’ to ‘sex’ (meaning sexual intimacy and not someone’s gender); however, sexy takes on a whole new meaning for a lot of people, other than sexual intimacy, in relation to: a woman’s make-up, a car, a dress or any other female attire worn over underwear to name just a few.
That said, and in the setting of a romantic sexual encounter, one such female attire can rightly be called ‘sexy!’ as this informative article will both reveal and explain.
First and foremost, the purpose of sexual intimacy, as explained in: ‘the TRUTH about female sexuality’, is to give women sexual pleasure. Moreover, that of much-needed foreplay to make them post orgasmic prior to penetrative sex.
A woman’s erogenous zones, the most responsive and sensitive parts of her body to sexual stimulation and arousal, extend from the hair on her head all the way down and through her body to her big toe! Noted by the image on the back of Madonna’s Erotica LP/CD.
In that sense, to create a post orgasmic state, the man has to take his time and not go straight for her mound of Venus, indicative of ‘a bull in a china shop’.
Whether the man starts off by nibbling his partner’s or date’s ears before moving onto, or starting by kissing her lips, his hand will caress her body at the same time and in some erotic manner.
Kissing will and should include the use of the man’s tongue to ‘explore’ the woman’s mouth, and, with it, provide an indication as to how skilful, adroit he is when it comes to using his tongue both on and inside a woman’s vulva.
Before he gets to that heavenly of all pleasurable tasks, one that facilitates and encourages the female orgasm, there is the small, yet needful, act of stimulating her sensitive nipples, which are covered by her outer clothing and possibly a bra.
Although the woman is part reclined in the photo, lifting up her top, thereby rendering her upper body semi-naked or naked if she’s not wearing a bra, may cause acute nerves for some women, in particular, those on a date with a new man. When it later comes to the more pleasurable aspect of foreplay, removing the woman’s jeans, needing her to stand up etc, can result in fumbling likely to interrupt the romantic moment.
A dress, however, differs in so many ways. Straps, strapless, crossed over, even, like the one in the photo, gathered at the waist or not.
With the bodice lowered, you have the same outcome as that of the jeans wearer’s top being removed, while the material is gathered at her waist and soon to be followed by the skirt, unless, as with the jeans, the woman stands up to remove it, which may well happen at the outset of foreplay – dancing to slow music.
When that happens, she is fully exposed, a tempting, and, dare I say it, arousing vision for the man who may become too eager to get what ‘he’ wants.
A blouse and skirt combination, on the other hand, is more sexual and erotic.
First and foremost, it allows the man to ‘slowly’ undress his partner or date a button of her blouse at a time, making her all the more comfortable with his sensual attention to her breasts and sensitive nipples, enough to illicit moans of pleasure from her lips and mouth before moving south to her skirt.
Stroking her legs, sending tingles of pleasure shooting through her body on their way to her core where a small fire should ignite and smoulder as the passion inside her for him begins to rise and grow with each increased blissful touch, caress, lick, smooch and kiss.
Always remember. Foreplay is not a stroke in GOLF! (FOUR!)
Choosing the right item of underwear is also important. A strapless bra for one, paired with a thong, while, as all women who wear one should know, they are designed to be easily drawn to the side.
In addition to being the UK’s foremost author of genuine erotica, Chris Thomlinson is also the UK’s foremost erotoligist, expert in the field of erotic, sexual love. To find out more, read these two articles: ‘The truth about female sexuality’ (how a woman’s sexual superiority has been undermined and suppressed by Governments since the begging of time to the present and future), and ‘The truth about the female orgasm’ (something most women are capable of. Certainly, more than 10% of UK women).
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