The
Rudiments
of foreplay
By Chris Thomlinson.
By far, the most expressive person on female sexuality, mixed in with eroticism, is Madonna.
From ‘Like a virgin’ to ‘Human nature’ everything in between and thereafter, Madonna has championed women’s rights and sexuality with her many song titles and lyrics, while not being shy to ‘express herself’, both openly and encouragingly on stage and in front of her many fans, a proportion of who are women.
Far be it from me, anyone, for that matter, to analyse the meaning of her lyrics: ‘Touched for the very first time’ from ‘Like a virgin’. Instead, let’s take a look at the more obvious ones.
‘Hanky Panky’ from ‘I’m breathless’, music from and inspired by the film ‘Dick Tracy’, was covered, in part, in the article this one was a link from.
‘Only the one that inflicts the pain can take it away’ from ‘Erotica’. A sharp flick or squeeze of the nipple followed by a pair of warm wet lips to soothe and pleasure; a telling slap directly on the length of a woman’s clitoris, something that women are known to do to themselves to facilitate their orgasm, followed by a smooth caress of the fingers, are but two examples of that prominent line, each with a profound element of foreplay to them.
‘Where life begins’ on the other hand, is full of suggestive innuendos of foreplay, starting with the very title itself.
‘Dining in and eating out…dinning out can happen down below’ (where life begins). ‘You can eat all you want and you won’t get fat…every girl should experience eating out…Colonel Sanders says it best “Finger lickin’ good”…learn a different way to kiss.’
It does, though, have to be said, she hit out with ‘Human nature’. ‘Express yourself don’t repress yourself’ sung continuously throughout as a message to women. Then, there are these choice lines:
‘You tried to shove me back inside your narrow room and silence me with bitterness and lies…Oops I didn’t know I couldn’t talk about sex. Did I have a point of view? Oops I didn’t know I couldn’t speak my mind!’
Let it be said, when it comes to sexual love and foreplay, the woman should be vocal, ‘speak her mind’, let her lover know how what they are doing feels; words and not just moans of pleasure and contentment.
Moving on to the rudiments of foreplay themselves:
Breasts and nipples. The desired purpose of foreplay in this area is one of making the woman’s nipples proud and sensual, bringing a low gasp from her lips as the waves of pleasure course and roll through her body with prolonged attention.
Her lover holds the nipple gently between near-limp lips, pouted outwards to bring only their moist, smooth surfaces into contact. By rapid gentle alternate blowing and sucking, the nipple moves in and between her lover’s lips.
With lips touching lightly, her lover laps at the nipple with their tongue, runs the tip of their tongue around and across the nub, or presses it back into the breast with their tongue tip before moving it ardently from side to side.
Her lover takes the entire nipple into their mouth. Tucking the tip of their tongue down below their lower teeth, they push the body of their tongue forward beneath the nipple, presses it up so that it catches the nipple against the roof of their mouth and slides it backward.
Somewhat deeper pressure on the nipple stimulates added sexual arousal:
Her lover rolls his lips inward so that they cover their teeth and grasps the nipple between them. By moving their head from side to side, a sawing action, almost, they then roll the nipple between firm surfaces.
Their lover takes the entire nipple into their mouth and sucks it between the body of their tongue and palate as above, only with a level of suction and firm pressure to make the stimulation deeper. Working the tongue from side to side adds variety to this caress.
On that very last point, variety, being spontaneous and not predictable, is what keeps many a couple’s love making both interesting and refreshing, as if it’s the first time, enough that the woman will want more.
Hands and fingers caressing a woman’s breasts need not end when moving onto the finer aspect of foreplay. ‘Dining in while eating out’ as Madonna mentioned, can be accompanied by added caresses to the breasts and nipples for more heightened pleasure and arousal, while the woman should not feel a reluctance to stroke her lover’s hair and direct them where to apply their warm wet tongue, eventually drawing them closer, short of suffocating them, at the point of orgasm.
Teasing her lower limbs and thighs with light kisses, approaching yet skirting around her mound of Venus, heightening her need to be touched intimately and fully are quite arousing.
With the woman turned over, nips to the buttocks followed by kisses to the area can be exciting, especially with a well-placed hand and fingers stroking her clitoris while the second hand caresses a breast and nipple.
Again, it’s all about sharing out the attention to her erogenous zones that will push her to the brink of orgasm, tipping her over the edge, as I word it in many of my stories, floating rather than plunging into the depths, carried on a wave of blissful euphoria.
In conclusion, sexual intimacy and foreplay is limited only by what is feasible as far as fantasies are concerned, as this group of photos demonstrate (Notice that the woman is mostly on top):
Thank you for reading, and do make good use of the above. Chris Thomlinson.
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